“Greet the brothers and sisters who are in Laodicea and also Nympha and the church that is in her house.” (Colossians 4:15 NASB20) Yes, it says the church that's in her house. This to me is an ideal place to start a church in your area. I say this because I was involved in one for many years.
"How good and pleasant it is when God's people live together in unity!" (Psalm 133:1 NIV)
Now, during communion, we may hear some well-meaning Church leader declare that we must first examine ourselves for any sin in our lives before partaking of the bread and wine. But is this really what Jesus meant? Well, read on to see what the whole context is really saying.
“Greet the brothers and sisters who are in Laodicea and also Nympha and the church that is in her house.” (Colossians 4:15 NASB20)
So, what is a church to you? Is it some large, beautiful cathedral or maybe a little picture-perfect building tucked away in some country meadow? Well, even though these may be nice thoughts, they still do not fit the true meaning of what a church is. For a church is not a building, but a gathering of people who have come together in the name of our Lord. This would be true whether they’re in cathedral, a rented building, someone’s home, a barn, or even in an open field. For the word church in the Greek means a “gathering” or an “assembly” of people. For we read in the book of Acts: “And Barnabas went forth to Tarsus, to seek for Saul, and having found him, he brought him to Antioch, and it came to pass that they a whole year did assemble together in the assembly, and taught a great multitude, the disciples also were divinely called first in Antioch Christians.” (Acts 11:25-26 YLT)
So, that word “assembly” in the Young’s Literal Translation above is normally translated as a “Church” in most other translations. But again, if you look at the Greek definition for “Church,” you will see that it simply means “an assembly of people.” So, whether it’s translated as a “church” or the more understandable word “assembly,” it is not a building but a gathering of God’s people.
So, as already mentioned above, anywhere Christians are gathered, there you would have a church. And in these gatherings, we normally come together for a time of prayer, worship and words of exhortation. Now, most traditional churches gather together on a Sunday. For this has been a practice in most Christian cultures for many years. However, if you read through the book of Acts in the bible, you would see that people were gathering throughout the week as well. For Sunday was simply the first day of the week and not the Sabbath as some mistakenly assume. For the Sabbath is (and will always be) on the seventh day of the week which is a Saturday.
Now, most of the churches today are set on a strict time schedule. This would be even more true for those mega churches who have multiple services. And because of this, prayer needs and personnel interactions may not take place. Therefore, it’s important for smaller groups to get together before or after service or even during the week. I say this because in these smaller groups, people can focus on prayer needs and personally interact with each other as well. And that’s what I have been involved in for several years in the past.
Now, you may have heard that some people are gathering in peoples homes instead of a traditional church building. And because these gatherings are generally smaller, prayer needs can be easily met and as well as personal interactions. And what’s nice is the fact that there is no large staff that’s depending on parishioners’ money.
Below I included some videos concerning churches that do gather in people’s homes. This I did so that you can see their view on why they do this:
Below are also some scriptures concerning Christian assembling in people’s homes:
“And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ: Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ” (Ephesians 4:11-13 KJV)
Now, I do believe that the gifts of the Spirit are for us today, just as it was for the early church. Therefore, we should be practicing these gifts not only in our churches, but also in our society as well. Also, our coming together should be to build each other up in the faith as the Paul the apostle said above. So then, the church should exist to equip one another with the tools and strength needed to spread the gospel to the world. This would be true even in the face of persecution and possibly even death. Because if we are not being persecuted in one form or another, are we really living our life according to the bible? And yes, I’m preaching to myself as well.
Paul said to Timothy: “Now you followed my teaching, conduct, purpose, faith, patience, love, perseverance, persecutions, and sufferings, such as happened to me at Antioch, at Iconium, and at Lystra; what persecutions I endured, and out of them all the Lord rescued me! Indeed, all who want to live in a godly way in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.” (2 Timothy 3:10-12 NASB20) So, let’s not be afraid to get some backlash for preaching the truth. For Jesus said this could and even would happen. And we know that he himself was persecuted for our sake, even to the point of death.
“And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.” (Colossians 3:15-17 NKJV)
According to that passage above, we as a church should also be encouraging each other in the faith. Also, we are called to take our message to the world and brings souls into God’s kingdom. For we read: “When they had preached the gospel to that city and had made many disciples, they returned to Lystra and to Iconium and to Antioch, strengthening the souls of the disciples, encouraging them to continue in the faith, and saying that through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God.” (Acts 14:21-22 ESV) We can see this again happening where we read: “Therefore comfort each other and edify one another, just as you also are doing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:11 NKJV)
“First of all, then, I urge that petitions, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for everyone, for kings and all those who are in authority, so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity. This is good, and it pleases God our Savior, who wants everyone to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all, a testimony at the proper time.” (1 Timothy 2:1-6 CSB)
So, are you in a church that sees prayer time as high priority in your gathering? And no, I’m not talking about the three-minute prayer that some churches do at the beginning and ending of service. But I’m talking about a prayer that reflects that which is mentioned above. Also, are you in a church fellowship where you only sing a few songs, hear an hour-long sermon and then out the door you go? Well if so, then I would encourage you to consider finding a new Church where you can have more personal interactions with fellow Christians. I say this because it’s not matching the churches we see in the New Testament. For our time together should include prayer and fellowship as well.
Now, as mentioned earlier, there are those large, organized churches that have smaller groups that meet during the week. This would be fine because in these smaller groups you can encourage each other and even immerse yourselves in prayer and worship. This way you can come together on a Sunday and then attend your smaller groups during the week.
“Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak; but they are to be submissive, as the law also says. And if they want to learn something, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is shameful for women to speak in church.” (1 Corinthians 14:34-35 NKJV)
According to that passage above, the bible is clear that women cannot be leaders in the church. Also, we read: “Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.” (1 Timothy 2:11-14 NKJV)
Now, the bible is also clear on what should be the standard for these leaders in the Church. For we read: “It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspires to the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do. An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, skillful in teaching, not overindulging in wine, not a bully, but gentle, not contentious, free from the love of money. He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity (but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?), and not a new convert, so that he will not become conceited and fall into condemnation incurred by the devil.” (1 Timothy 3:1-6 NASB20)
“In the same way, deacons are to be worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine, and not pursuing dishonest gain. They must keep hold of the deep truths of the faith with a clear conscience. They must first be tested; and then if there is nothing against them, let them serve as deacons. … “Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.” (1 Timothy 3:8-10, 12 NIV)
In those passages above, we have scriptures mentioning the qualifications for those deacons who are men. However, there is a debate on what verse 11 is saying in this same chapter (which I didn’t include in that passage above). For some translations say it’s about deacons’ wives, while others say it’s actually taking about women deacons (which I believe is true). Now, we must remember that there is no specific word for “wives” in the Greek. For the Greek word used can ether mean a single woman or one who is married. So, it’s all up to the translators to figure out what word to use.
So, let’s look at what two different translations have to say. The first translations says: “Likewise, their wives must be reverent, not slanderers, temperate, faithful in all things.” (1 Timothy 3:11 NKJV) The second translation says: “Likewise, women deacons must be dignified, not slanderers, clearheaded, faithful in all things.” (1 Timothy 3:11 REV) Now, I personally believing this second translation got it right. I say this because the requirement that some translations put on deacons’ wives is not required for the Elders in this same chapter. Therefore, it’s not about the deacon’s wives but instead the requirements for woman deacons who want to serve in the church. Now, just to let you know. The Greek word for “deacon” (or deaconesses) is simply a word meaning a “servant.” Therefore, it has nothing to do with church elders (leaders).
Below are a few other translations that show that there were woman deacons serving in the churches.
Please take not to what the “Jamieson-Fausset-Brown” commentary has to say:
“And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ: Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a perfect man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ.” (Ephesians 4:11-13 WEB).
Now, those who are leaders should keep the gatherings organized and focused on Christ as we read above. Also, leaders are to remove anyone within the assembly that refuses to put away their sin after being warned. (1 Corinthians 5:9-13). I know this may be hard to do, however it is necessary because: “A little leaven leavens the whole lump.” (Galatians 5:9 ESV)
And yes, leaders should also bring us words of exhortation and encouragement from God’s word as well. Also, through their study of God’s word, they may have more insight to certain passages that can help us in our walk with Christ. Therefore, we do need sound church leaders in every assembly. However, it’s the Holy Spirit (not the church leaders) who open our eyes to God’s truths being preached. For Jesus himself said: “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.” (John 14:26 ESV) As well as: “It is written in the prophets, 'And they shall all be taught by God.' Every one who has heard and learned from the Father comes to me.” (John 6:45 RSV)
And finally, we have John addressing his (adult) disciples whom he calls, his “little children” (see note below) saying: “But the anointing that you received from him abides in you, and you have no need that anyone should teach you. But as his anointing teaches you about everything, and is true, and is no lie - just as it has taught you, abide in him.” (1 John 2:27 ESV) So again, it’s the Holy Spirit that opens our eyes to God truths on what we may read and hear.
And let’s not forget to test everything that we hear. And yes, this would include from the mouth of church leaders as well. This is what those of Berea did, for we read: “These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.” (Acts 17:11 KJV) Pray to God that we all would be as noble as they were.
That all being said, if you’re being ministered to in your current church and are happy there, then I encourage you to stay there. For hopefully you made friends there and even gather together during the week in other members homes. This is what I believe Christians should be doing, no matter how big their traditional Sunday church is. One the other hand, let’s make sure we’re not stuck in a church that mimics some social club. For it shouldn’t be about some live band, key motivational speaker who talks for an hour, takes your money and out the door you go. And yes, I have attended some large Christian events which can be a blessing to attend. But that shouldn’t replace our more personnel times of gatherings. And for those of you who are looking for a church. I hope you would find one that would bless you and minister to you and reflect those churches that are laid out in God’s word. And if you not sure what that looks like, then crack open and read your bible to find out.
For: “The church of Christ like a flower needs each petal, don’t let your Bible gather dust. Without the Word our hearts would harden into metal, don’t let your heart begin to rust. Take the time to read, Jesus took the time to bleed for our sins. The light of God like a fire needs each ember, don’t hide it’s brilliance in the shade. Until the spark of the Spirit fills each member, don’t let your faith begin to fade. Take the time to read, for Jesus took the time to bleed, for our sins.” (Words are from: “Song For The Church” which is from the album “More Than Words” by the Christian group “Parable,” recorded in 1975 by Maranatha Music)
God bless you as you seek to do his will. Amen.
A house church is a great way to connect with each other and with God. For it's not only easier to get to know each other and minister to each other's needs, but it's easier for us to reflect on God's word as well. This would be true by allowing questions to be asked and answered. This is something that would be imposable with a large church setting. Also, prayer needs can be easily met as well within these smaller groups.
“Now I urge you, brothers and sisters, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you all agree and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be made complete in the same mind and in the same judgment.” (1 Corinthians 1:10 NASB20)
According to that passage above, there is to be no divisions within the body of Christ. For we are to be in unity not only within our own churches, but with all our brothers and sisters in Christ around the world. But unfortunately, we have created so many Denominations and Associations which can cause divisions among us. For Paul the apostle first said: “My brothers and sisters, some from Chloe’s household have informed me that there are quarrels among you. What I mean is this: One of you says, “I follow Paul”; another, “I follow Apollos”; another, “I follow Cephas”; still another, “I follow Christ.” Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Were you baptized in the name of Paul?” (1 Corinthians 1:11-13 NIV)
Yes, brothers and sisters in Christ, it’s this kind thinking that can cause divisions among us. So, let's be careful not favor one church leader over another as the church of Corinth did. For we can see that this was a big issue in their church. For Paul the apostle finally summed it all up when he said: “So, brothers and sisters, I could not speak to you as spiritual people, but instead as people of the flesh, as infants in Christ. I fed you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready. In fact, you are still not ready, for you are still influenced by the flesh. For since there is still jealousy and dissension among you, are you not influenced by the flesh and behaving like unregenerate people? For whenever someone says, "I am with Paul," or "I am with Apollos," are you not merely human? What is Apollos, really? Or what is Paul? Servants through whom you came to believe, and each of us in the ministry the Lord gave us.” (1 Corinthians 3:1-5 NET)
So, let’s not be bragging about Pastors or Teachers or this church or that church. For God’s word tells us whom we should be bragging upon and following. For we read: “But God forbid that I should boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world. (Galatians 6:14 NKJV) Yes, brothers and sisters in Christ. We should be bragging on Jesus whom God our Father sent on our behalf. “And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” (Colossians 3:17 ESV) And not only that: “But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” (1 Corinthians 15:57 ESV) Amen.
Now, it may be true that we love our God from the heart. We may also be totally sincere in our faith as Christians, loving each other and praying and reaching out to the lost as well. However, at the same time we could be building these invisible walls of separation by labeling ourselves. And the sad part of it all, we do it in plain view of those who are of this world. For if we would examine most of the early churches in the New Testament, we would see that they were being referred to by their locality such as a name of their city or of a person who owned the house. So, these types of labeling were not to show a distinction from one another but to aid the reader to understand their locality.
That all being said, God calls us to be one in Christ and to dwell in unity with fellow believers. Jesus prayed for this Christian unity so that the world could see our love for one another. And not only that, but he also prayed for oneness so that the world would recognize that he truly came from the Father. For Jesus said: “Neither pray I for these alone, but for them also which shall believe on me through their word; That they all may be one; as thou, Father, art in me, and I in thee, that they also may be one in us: that the world may believe that thou hast sent me.” (John 17:20-21 KJV) And again, this unity can only be accomplished if we obey God by breaking down any dividing walls that we may have made. Because let’s face it, if we don’t do it, God may do it in such a way that would surprise us all.
Below are some passages that show references to church locations:
A few years back, the Syrian Christians were praying for revival and believing that God would do a great work in their land. They like us had their churches along with their different denominations and divisions. And then came the war with its bombings and terrorists. Churches were destroyed and down came their denominational barriers that separated believers. Those Syrian Christians groups who at one time may have questioned each other’s salvation are now gathering together. This they are doing with weekly prayers, asking God to move in their nation and in their churches. Now, these same Christians continue to spread hope in the face of hopelessness, holding high not a political or denominational banner but the banner of Jesus Christ.
And let’s not forget what happened when persecution broke out against the early church as described in the book of Acts. For we read that: “But Saul began to destroy the church. Going from house to house, he dragged off both men and women and put them in prison. Those who had been scattered preached the word wherever they went.” (Acts 8:3-4 NIV) So, even though Saul caused havoc for these Christians, it worked out for the good. For we read that these believers were scattered everywhere, spreading the good news of Jesus Christ to the world. Now, just to let you know, this same Saul (who is also called Paul) later converted over to Christianity after having an encounter with Jesus himself. And let’s thank God for that. For he wrote a good portion of the New Testament epistles we have today.
Now, we cannot put God in our own little theological box. Yes, sometimes we get up on our little “soapbox” and act like we know everything. However, we know that God’s ways and thoughts are much higher than ours. For we read: “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9 ESV) So fellow Christians, instead of causing divisions, let’s just humble ourselves before God and be the body of Christ that we’re called to be. For we must embrace one another as brothers and sisters in Christ and seek unity for God’s Church. Amen.
So, brothers and sisters in Christ: “Who comprehends the mind of the LORD, or gives him instruction as his counselor? From whom does he receive directions? Who teaches him the correct way to do things, or imparts knowledge to him, or instructs him in skillful design? Look, the nations are like a drop in a bucket; they are regarded as dust on the scales. He lifts the coastlands as if they were dust. Not even Lebanon could supply enough firewood for a sacrifice; its wild animals would not provide enough burnt offerings. All the nations are insignificant before him; they are regarded as absolutely nothing.” (Isaiah 40:13-17 NET)
“Oh, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable his judgments, and his paths beyond tracing out! “Who has known the mind of the Lord? Or who has been his counselor?” “Who has ever given to God, that God should repay them?” For from him and through him and for him are all things. To him be the glory forever! Amen.” (Romans 11:33-36 NIV)
We Christians must always keep our eyes stayed upon the Lord. This way we can be led by his Holy Spirit into all truth. And let’s always remember that we are called to be one in Christ. For Jesus said: “I pray not only for these, but also for those who believe in me through their word. May they all be one, as you, Father, are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us, so that the world may believe you sent me. I have given them the glory you have given me, so that they may be one as we are one. I am in them and you are in me, so that they may be made completely one, that the world may know you have sent me and have loved them as you have loved me.” (John 17:20-23 CSB)
And let us also remember what we are commissioned to do. For Jesus said: “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to keep all that I commanded you; and behold, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28:19-20 LSB) Yes, we are to be the light and salt to this lost world. Therefore, let us stop causing divisions and be soul winners for Christ instead. Amen.
Below are some references concerning what was mentioned above:
God bless you as you seek to do his will. Amen.
(Note: Text used in this article are shown below to assist you in your study of God’s word. Therefore, I urge you to: “Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.” - 2 Timothy 2:15 KJV)
Instead of passing judgment on each other, let's seek to unite in the basic fundamentals of our Christian faith. Such as Christ died for our sins. Then he was buried for three days and nights. And then on the third day he rose from the dead for our justification.
“For I received from the Lord what I also delivered to you, that the Lord Jesus on the night when he was betrayed took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it, and said, “This is my body, which is for you. Do this in remembrance of me.” In the same way also he took the cup, after supper, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood. Do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of me.” For as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup, you proclaim the Lord's death until he comes.” (1 Corinthians 11:23-26 ESV)
Our gathering for communion should be a time to reflect on the price that has been paid for our sins. For we first see this happening during a Passover observant which Jesus held: “And he took bread, and gave thanks, and brake it, and gave unto them, saying, This is my body which is given for you: this do in remembrance of me.” (Luke 22:19 KJV) So, Jesus said: “this do in remembrance of me.” Next, we read: “And he took the cup, and gave thanks, and gave it to them, saying, Drink ye all of it; For this is my blood of the new testament, which is shed for many for the remission of sins.” (Matthew 26:27-28 KJV) Therefore, communion is not to be about ourselves, but it should be all about our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. (John 3:16 ESV) So, let's begin by recognizing the body and blood of Jesus.
Now, during communion, we may hear some well-meaning Church leader declare that we must first examine ourselves for any sin in our lives before partaking of the bread and wine. But is that what Jesus said and meant? Well, according to what we already read above, he said: “this do in remembrance of me.” So, why do some say that we must examine ourselves first for any sin? Well, it’s because they are taking the words of the apostle Paul out of context? For Paul first said: ““Therefore when you come together in one place, it is not to eat the Lord's Supper. For in eating, each one takes his own supper ahead of others; and one is hungry and another is drunk.” (1 Corinthians 11:20-21 NKJV) So, we see that they were treating this as some common ordinary meal. However, down a few verses Paul makes it clear what this meal should be all about, for he says: “For as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup, you proclaim the Lord's death until he comes.” (1 Corinthians 11:26 RSV)
Yes, brothers and sisters in Christ, this meal is to be all about the life and death of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
“Therefore whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner, shall be guilty of the body and the blood of the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 11:27 NASB95)
Wow, that’s a stern warning for us who partake of the Lord’s supper. So, what is this “unworthy manner” that Paul is talking about in that passage above? Well, let’s continue reading to find out. For he goes on to say: “Everyone ought to examine themselves before they eat of the bread and drink from the cup. For those who eat and drink without discerning the body of Christ eat and drink judgment on themselves.” (1 Corinthians 11:28-29 NIV) Well, there you go. The unworthy manner is not some unconfessed sin in our lives. But instead, it’s not properly discerning that this meal is all about the body and blood of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. And, “That is why many of you are weak and ill, and some have died.” (1 Corinthians 11:30 ESV) So, brothers and sisters in Christ; we can see how important it is to take this meal seriously.
Therefore, we should stop teaching this false doctrine of unconfessed sin. I say this because there may be some brother or sister in Christ who is feeling guilty for something they did or said. And even though they asked God for forgiveness, they may still have a hard time shaking their guilt. And because of this false teaching, they could experience even more guilty after partaking and thus end up feeling condemned. For let’s face it, if this really was about unconfessed sin, would any of us be able to partake of communion with a clear conscience? So please, let’s keep things in context and not add unbiblical teachings that can wound fellow Christian’s conscience.
God bless you as you seek to do his will. Amen
Note: The different bible versions used in this article are listed below to aid you in your study of God’s word:
Taking things out of context can cause much confusion for fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. So, let's always read those verses before and after a certain bible passage. This way we can clearly see what's being said.
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